With the discussion on dating, it's not just about love, marriage and then the baby carriage. You've heard it before and you'll no doubt hear it again: Confidence; whether in words or in your body language, is thekey to datingsuccess. Here are twenty keys you'll need if you want to unlock the heart of your desired partner:
Dress For Success
You've heard the saying, “Clothes make the man,” well, that saying holds true when you put yourself out there. Think about it, you wouldn't go to a meeting with a client in your ripped jeans & old T-shirt. So when going out on a date make sure you look decent.
When you smile you show off your confidence. It's that simple. The more you smile, the more ahppy you look. And the more others will be attracted to you.
Do You Smell That?
There is mounting evidence that human's can process pheromones the same way we process other smells. These can trigger our sex drive by traveling the neural pathway that connects the nose to the hypothalamus. This is the part of the brain that initiates the release of the sex hormones and fuels erotic feelings. If you don't like how your partner smells, you find yourself dumping him no matter how good looking, charming, or successful he might be.
Wine and Dine
You don't need to go out and spend a fortune on dinner, but the key to dating and courting a woman is to make her feel special. These days guys think that they don't have to pay for every meal, BUT if you don't want to be seen as a cheapskate, I would suggest that you pay at least for the first date. Women want to know that you can handle a simple thing as paying for a meal.
Don't Feel Self-Conscious
For women it's all about how you carry yourself. Not all of us are going to be a size 2, have blonde hair, blue eyes, and be in the best physical shape. Don't go out on a date and make petty little comments about all the other women you see out there. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly criticizing how she looks compared to everyone else?
Go ahead and wear that cute little dress with the high heels. Go ahead and do something bold. A man wants to be around a woman who not only “looks” confident in themselves but who always “acts” confident in themselves.
Don't Play Head Games
Don't use women for sex and string them along with no intentions for emotional commitment. The same goes for women. Don't tell a man that you love him when you don't just because he makes you feel “brand new” Don't play hard to get- be hard to get. There's a difference. In other words, know your worth. Don't play mindless mind games, know what you want and don't be afraid to tell him. Also, games in love don't work. All they do is make you look like a loser, and no one wants to be with a loser!
Find Common Ground
If the only thing you have in common is sex, then sadly your relationship will burst into flames. Find things that you both have an interest in. For guys, sports is big. So if you can like the same team he does and can talk sports you will be golden. But it's more than just sports. Music, movies, politics, family traditions, etc. The more you have in common, the better chance you have at making it work. But remember, it takes more than just interests to make a relationship work. If you aren't communicating, interests aren't going to matter.
Make a Fantasy A Reality
Guys fantasize about sex everyday. They daydream about how it's going to happen and where it's going to happen, among other things. If you do something to them that no one has ever done before, chances are that while they are thinking about sex, they will be thinking about that new and exciting move you just did on them last night. Keep adding new and exciting things and they won't stop wanting to be with you.
Not only Talk The Talk, But Know How To Walk It
Text a guy, “I can't wait to see you because when I do, I won't be able to keep my hands off you!”
Text a woman, “I can't wait to see you because just the touch of your lips on mine drives me wild!”
BUT if all you are is a bunch of words, no one is going to take you serious. Back up your words with actions.
Every once and a while do something romantic. Guys seem to think that when they get the girl the courting and romance is over with; wrong! Talk your lady to see the sunset, plan a picnic in the park, so something that comes from the heart and you will keep unlocking hers.
Listen to your lady when she talks. Don't be talking on the phone, watching television, or playing a video game. Look her in the eyes and really listen. Also NEVER ever ignore a woman. Even if you two are arguing or something else happens, the worse possible thing to do is to ignore her.
Walk Like a SuperModel
You don't have to actually be on the runway but if you act as if you are, you're golden. The fact that the more wiggle in a woman's walk, the tinier your waist is in proportion to your hips, is a telltale sign of youth and fertility. The way you move is called sex appeal. A woman's waist to hip ratio is one of the MOST important cues in sexual attraction.
Share A Laugh
There's nothing more sexy than making your guy or gal laugh! It shows just how comfortable the two of you are together. And laughing is the best medicine for whatever you are feeling. Go ahead, be corny. Doctor's orders.
Stay in Shape
I don't care if you've been in a relationship for five years or for five months. But under no certain terms should you eer just “let yourself go.” The better in shape you are, the better the sex will be. Not to mention the more attractive you will be to your partner.
Flowers, Candy and Gifts
Ever so often give a little “I'm thinking of you” gift. Guys, get her flowers or something you know she'll adore from her interests. Ladies get your guy a little trinket from his favorite team or his favorite beer, candy. Whatever you get, make it even more speical by hand writing a little note.
Chivalry Is Not Dead
I don't care that it's 2016, open the door for your lady. Pull out her chair in a restaurant. Hold an umbrella over her head. She is your lady, make her feel that way. Period.
There's nothing worse than NOT knowing what is going on in the life of your partner! Remember, no one is a mind reader! Don't be afraid to have a serious conversation with her or him. They want to know that you trust them, even with your darkest secrets.
Enjoy Some Family Fun
Do an activity that you both enjoy and invite your siblings and their significant others along too. (Or Friends) Make it something that everyone can enjoy and create memories.
Don't ever pretend to be somebody you aren't just to please someone else. If they can't accept you, flaws and all, then they aren't even worth glancing at. Remember that, you are worth it.