When people make a big deal about something, it's obviously important enough to the point where others should put themselves in other's shoes, instead of getting all upset and doing what most do; running from the person or telling that person that the only side they need to see is theirs.
When you run from a problem, it doesn't go away. Instead it just grows and grows. When you refuse to see things from another person's perspective; you create tension.
If you want to truly understand why some people bottle themselves up, become aloners, or worse, commit suicide, it's simply because people NEVER take the time to completely understand others, show compassion or have patience.
Today's world has the its all about me tone.
The worse thing anyone can do is exclude someone else and give a lame excuse as to why they do it. We're human, we make mistakes, we forget, we are consumed with having to deal with tons of stuff in our daily lives. BUT...
Life is only best when it's lived to the full extent.
Life is only good when we can STOP and THINK about how our actions effect others. If you today can take a moment and just think about someone who is always there for you, and return the favor, that is what life is about: Creating those memories.
This year as I turn 40, I see life in a different way. I don't know why, but it's probably because in my life I have experienced so many things that I have grown. And I am looking forward to experiencing so much more!
Remember, life always find a way of giving us back whatever we give to it.<3