SO while doing my online dating research I came across a profile nearly made me throw up!
This guy that I was involved with, grew a friendship and wanted to move the relationship to the next level. After that he told me, "We'll talk," and then that was pretty much the last I heard from him for six months until I saw him again and we slowly started our friendship all over again. Then once again, he vanished and that was it for me. I had enough. I gave him a second chance and he blew it.
People don't believe me when I tell them that 99% of people flat out LIE on dating sites. Well, I can vouch on this one since I know him and know him very well.
The end where he lists his "ideal date" for coffee or a drink: He doesn't like coffee and he doesn't drink due to his liver disease he has. Or maybe he lied to me, but EVERY time we were together all he drank was Diet Coke. He also listed that he enjoys running. Let me tell you that when I told him that I go running he said, "I can't get into running, running is boring." Of course after I told him my running schedule ( time and place) he shows up on the path.
I laugh at his story and for what he is looking for because he HAD all that and chose to pass it by. Instead he wants the leftovers that are on online dating sites.
Most women think it's a good idea to just send that "Dear John" letter and vent, but I will tell you that is one of the worst things to do. It just makes you look ridiculous. BUT... if you have a blog and you write, you can always just write what you would love to say to him and call it a day. ( TIP: don't use his name that is not such a good idea either.)
WHAT I WOULD SAY IF I COULD:
I know the Bible says to turn the other cheek, but right now I think Jesus would hold my jacket while I kick your ass. You're a liar, narcissistic jerk, and you better pray that your daughters never run into a jackass like you. Karma is like a boomerang. What you throw at others will eventually come back to smack you in the face. I don't think you were a mistake, because had I not been with you and gotten to really know you, I would have never realized that I seriously need to raise my standards. I finally realized months ago that I deserve better. I've moved on. My new beginning starts now- without you. As Kelly Clarkson sang, "Since you've been gone, I can breath for the first time."
I was simply an option you kept open just in case your plan to test the dating pool backfired. I'm no one's option. I'm not anyone's plaything. You don't get to drop me & pick me back up whenever you feel like it.
I pity the woman that ends up with you.
THE LIAR'S PROFILE:
"I am looking for someone who wants to be loved and enjoy life. I am hardworking kind man looking for a woman who wants to be happy and share great times.
My match is sincere and honest. Someone who can laugh and joke and also be romantic. There needs to be attraction of course.
Ideal date: A relaxed meeting for coffee or a drink."
REMEMBER: If you want to be treated differently, accept no less than what you deserve. Know Your Worth! I know mine. ❤️