A Sneak Peek

 “Just like you can't steal second base with one foot on first, you can't move on to find new true love if you're still holding on to the past.”  Even though I wasn’t ready to give up on love, I was in no position to believe anymore. It was when I...

A tease as for what is to come...

There is nothing in the world quite like the smell of the ballpark. The smell of freshly cut grass, hot dogs and popcorn fill the air no matter where you sit. Then there are the sights and sounds in the ballpark. If you get there early enough you get...

Men, Dating and Love

When you are on your search for your “Prince Charming” you come across a ton of different guys as you skip down the trail of love and happiness. The trail is filled with guys who are interesting, interested in just fooling around and guys who are...

Along The Way

  Nothing’s impossible, That is something I have learned along the way. I never lost the trust I had inside my soul. I never lost the feelings that made me whole. Instead I just kept believing that all I wanted would be. Even if I...

Comparing Dating to Baseball

  Compa1) Sign language is the communication by not just baseball players: When you are at a baseball game you see that the batter, the pitcher and the base runner are always checking for the sign to either take the pitch, swing, which pitch to...

Dear Erik, Love, Ariel

Double Standards. When it comes to dating there are tons of them. Men, who are never married, which would be a curse if they were instead, a woman, would be seen as an old maid, a spinster. But instead of pitying a guy who is still very single,...

Enough Really!

How stupid are people, really? All this talk about women's rights in the locker room... Let me tell ya: Ines Sainz KNEW what she was doing and she GOT what she wanted: Attention! I'll put it this way if I was going to a NFL practice knowing that guys...

Dating should be an Olympic Sport

Men. They really don’t think on the same levels as us or do they? When you are on the search for your “prince charming” thanks to watching and believing in those failrytales, like Cinderella, you start to think to yourself, “Why is this so...

Want Sex? My review of Sex and The City 2

I walked into the theater 15 minutes before show time for two reasons: 1) I wanted to get a good seat thinking it was going to be crowded and 2) to see what type of "crop" would flock to the movies on Friday morning to see this movie. Although I'm not...

If I were to write a Romance Novel

If I were to write a romance novel, a fairtytale mind you, how do you think I’d write it? You probably would think that I would write a story about a girl, who just about gave up on finding true love, only to be swept off her feet by a handsome...

Is he faking or does he have cold feet?

Sharon Stone said it best when she said, “Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships.” And why do men fake relationships? The answer is very simple: for sex. What a great way to get sex; real sex. Not dirty sex from a...

Love on the Brain

When I was asked to do some research on brain chemistry, after I rolled my eyes, the first thing I thought was, "God, not another person who thinks science is the cause of everything!" Now before I get thrown under the bus, let me state that I'm not...

The Successful Strategy for Long Distance Love

No relationship grows well without space and air. This is true when you are with someone 24/7 but being in a long distance relationship is not something easy. Does that distance you spend apart help or hurt the potential for a long-term relationship...

Does Love Fail?

We don't choose whom we fall in love with but when things go sour it's not the love that fails it's the people who fail. But we as emotional beings, hate losing at anything, let alone relationships. But it's hard to love someone who doesn't love u...

The Valentine's Day Curse

So, today is the day of lovers. Today is the day that every man in America looks forward too for a very simple reason: Sex and Lingerie. These men go out of their way to try and set the mood for sex by purchasing over priced roses, panties, and...

Get Out Now!

When you hear the word phrase, Abusive relationship, usually domestic violence comes to mind, but emotional abuse is often minimized, yet it can leave deep and lasting scars. And the truth is emotional abuse just doesn't happen to women, but it also...

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

“They say breaking up is hard to do,” sings Neil Sedaka, and I can tell you, he’s certainly correct on that! Breaking up any relationship is hard to do, especially when you have been with a person for so many years. But what happens if you are no...

First Date magic

Everyone who goes on a first date not only hopes that it will turn out to be the beginning of a “great” relationship, but you also want to feel that first date magic you hear people in the movies talk about. No matter how down- to- Earth you really,...

I Want To Know What Love Is

Here’s the thing, when you really like someone it’s hard to NOT think about them. So you force yourself to try and not think about them, to only find out that now you can’t stop thinking about that person! That’s what love can do to a person. When its...

One-Night Stand- Too good to be true?

Being that today is New Year’s Eve, I started to think about how many people use a night like to tonight as a way of getting sex either with someone a person knows, someone a person just met, or in fact having that typical one-night stand drama, lots...

Talk is Cheap

Big talkers are everywhere. We run into them all the time it seems. They make brash promises, statements, and even make complicated plans often with no intention whatsoever of following through. People seem to always be full of empty words....

Women are Fabulous Too!

Why is it that men are permitted to be obsessed about getting whatever it is they want, but when women are obsessed about anything, we are seen as crazy? That is the question that was on my mind the other day and that I posted on my Facebook page as...

A Play of Words

Guys are not that complicated when it comes to trying to turn them on. Whether it’s in person, on the phone or online, there are many ways to go about it. Online is the easiest way and all that is required is to know how to play around with words. Yep,...